Thursday, August 26, 2010


 Yahoo...weekend will begin today at 5 in the evening...woottt woottt!
Tomorrow will be a holiday after Nuzul Al-quran
so, office will be close
I plan to go off early this evening to enjoy my peaceful and restful holiday

My holiday plan?? Dunno yet...but as I have mentioned it will be very restful and peaceful...hopefully
*finger crossed*

Wishing everyone who will be having holiday tomorrow...a joyful and fun holiday!!!

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Wednesday, August 25, 2010


I read this story from some friend's touched by this sad I Google to look for the author of this story.. I hope my search is correct. This story was written by STEPHANIE HAMILTON BROWN
(you might have read this some where, because it's an old story, written 3-4 years ago...i think)

so, here's a must read story....

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.


So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate. ~Matthew 19:6

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Kena tag Indai Dara dan Mommy Ethan
(dapat 2 tag skali wohh)
  1. Jika sekarang anda ada RM250. Anda nak buat apa?
    apa lagi..pergi shopping sakan ler.. Hey hey..ada jualan murah hari raya start hari ni tau..kat Putrajaya...kepaada yang dah payday hari ni boleh la pegi..gua pula, tunggu RM250 ni jatuh dari langit hari ni...kalu xde..tunggu payday ler...

  2. Cikgu kegemaran semasa tingkatan 3 dan kenapa?
    Tingkatan 3......emm..lupa la pulak...ohhh!! ada! masa tingkatan 3, cikgu2 maktab buat training kt skolah kitorang...ada la sorang cikgu lelaki ni *tak ingat nama dia :p* jadi pengganti sementara untuk subjek pendidikan moral...knapa suka dia? haha all paham2 la...zaman skolah dulu suka cuci mata and gurau2 dengan cikgu yang tak kawen lagi..*tak kira cikgu lelaki or perempuan sbb mostly cikgu yang single mesti sporting2*..masa form 3, gua dgn sorang BFF gua port kat seat belakang skali, tapi asal je subjek moral, kitorang cepat2 pindah duduk depan skali..dekat klu nak bergurau2 dengan cikgu tu

  3. Subjek kegemaran semasa di universiti?
    Semestinya subjek bahasa Inggeris..sebab..lecturer2 English ku masa kat universiti semuanya sporting2 belaka..
    - Masa di UiTM kuching..lecturer english kitorang menggalakkan penggunaan words like 'F**K', 'A*s', 'B***S**T' atau words2 yang kita selalu *** kan di dalam essay kitorang...sebab dia kata words2 tu adalah English, walaupun informal English...dengan dia saja boley la guna words2 tu tapi klu dengan lecturer2 lain jangan, katanya. Then, kitorang sekelas pon surprise n bisik2 "giler sporting lecturer nih"
    - Masa belajar di KLMU..ada sorang lecturer english lelaki nih memang sporting..student-friendly. Banyak event dia organize dengan student..haaa,lagi satu...sebab dia la gua boleh berblogging sekarang nih..ingat tak *klu u all ada follow entry gua sebelum ni* gua pernah cerita masa kelas english, lecturer suruh kitorang buka blog masing2...even sampai sekarang, dia juga antara pembaca setia blog aku nih..haha, yes, that's you sunnysideup. I'm so glad that you were my lecturer.
    Ada lagi sorang lecturer english perempuan gua masa di KLMU..pun sporting..gaya nya memang selamba..macam student. Orang yang tak kenal dia tak kan tau dia adalah lecturer. Dia datang kolej yang berada di tengah2 bandaraya KL yang jam ni naik moto..rugged weh. Ada sekali tu dia buat aktiviti story telling, nak increase kiter nyer confidence speaking in public. Nak tau gua buat apa? Gua punya plan nak memorize ada satu story nih, tapi gua punya memory memang susah nak ingat ayat2/fakta dalam masa yang singkat. so gua pon bawa la skali buku SNOW WHITE *sambungan cerita snow white and the seven dwarf yang sumer kanak2 perempuan di dunia ni tau* gua pon story macam story telling kat budak2 tadika..dengan membayangkan rakan2 ku yang lain mengecut mcm budak tadika yang comey.. :p *nasib baik idea gua nih boleh diterimapakai*

  4. Perkara yang anda tak suka tentang sekolah?
    Emm...homework kottt...walaupun tau cikgu beri homework untuk heheh :p

  5. Apa yang anda risau?
    buat masa sekarang ni...isu $$ dan 'GEMZ'...tersangat risau dan sedang mengusahakan nya...chayok!

Ok.. Sila tag 3 orang lain

(sorry ya mangsa-mangsa tag :p)
  1. Strawbery
  2. Iema lela
  3. Erina

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Monday, August 23, 2010

The net....

On one ordinary day

Have you ever.....

open your laptop/pc...and looking blankly at the screen for a few minutes...
open your facebook account...but you have no idea what to post...what to look or do...
open your twitter account ... but don't have anything to tweet about
open your blogger account to find that you have nothing in your mind

...all the above happens at the same time...???

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Jom Beli Barang Raya @ Putrajaya

I got this from email...thanks to Miss Gna :)


Assalamulaikum dan salam 1 Malaysia,

Y. Bhg. Dato'/Datuk/Datin/Tuan/Puan,


Dengan segala hormatnya merujuk kepada perkara di atas.

2. Sukacita dimaklumkan bahawa Kementerian Perdagangan Dalam Negeri, Koperasi dan Kepenggunaan (KPDNKK) akan menganjurkan Program Jom Beli Barang Raya@Putrajaya (Jualan Terus Dari Kilang) pada tarikh, masa dan tempat seperti berikut:
Tarikh : 25 Ogos hingga 29 Ogos 2010 (Rabu hingga Ahad)
Masa : 10 pagi hingga 10 malam
Tempat : Presint 2, Putrajaya (Berhadapan Bazaar Ramadhan)

3. Untuk makluman, pelbagai barangan keperluan sempena Hari Raya dan barangan berjenama ada dijual pada harga yang istimewa. Antara jenama-jenama produk yang dijual adalah Nike, Adidas, New Balance, Decellini, Arnold Palmer, Van Heusen, Polo Club, Snails, Jeep, Bebe Homes, Colours, Polka Dots, Disney Pooh, Baby looney Tunes, Panasonic, Bill Keith, Camel, Larrie, Crocodile, Nokia, Samsung, Nikon, Sony dan banyak lagi.

4. Sehubungan dengan itu, dalam usaha menjayakan penganjuran acara ini Y. Bhg. Dato'/Datuk/Datin/Tuan/Puan adalah dijemput untuk berkunjung ke tapak program sepanjang tempoh berlangsungnya acara tersebut.

5. Perhatian dan kerjasama Y.Bhg. Dato’/Datin/Tuan/Puan dalam perkara ini amatlah dihargai serta didahului dengan ucapan ribuan terima kasih. Jika terdapat sebarang pertanyaan atau maklumat lanjut boleh berhubung dengan pegawai-pegawai berikut:

i. Puan Noraini binti Mohammed
No. Tel : 03-8882 6200
Emel :

ii. Encik Khairul Ezam bin Mohd Rasali
No. Tel : 03-8882 6487
Emel :

iii. Encik Henry Borromeo anak Nyirop
No. Tel : 03-8882 5790
Emel :

iv. Encik Sukarman bin Hamid
No. Tel : 03-8882 5772
Emel :

v. Cik Nur Sabrina binti Akashah
No. Tel : 03-8882 6201
Emel :

Sekian dimaklumkan.


***note: Appreciate you can share with your friends too.

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I Love Malaysia


Today is 23rd day in the month of August in year 2010 :) ... 8 more days to go for us, Malaysians to celebrate National Day... Do you have the Merdeka spirit already? oh hey, isn't it gonna be a holiday this coming Friday? Nuzul Al-quran falls on 27th Aug 2010 if I'm not mistaken. However, My company haven't announce holiday for nuzul al-quran yet *waiting with full of hope :")*....

For sure, Hari Raya Aidilfitri holiday has been announce by my company...which falls on 10th&11th September 2010. Office will only be closed on Friday...So, for those who wants to celebrate Hari Raya longer, they will have to apply for leave...and as for me, work day..only off on 10th *ofcourse i'm saving my holiday for Christmas...can't wait to go home :')* ..Paksa diri kerja walaupun semangat raya jugak...

Another more holiday on 16th September - 1Malaysia Day, which falls on Thursday after Raya weekend *wohh...on - off - on - off je keja... (-.-')..bimbang xda semangat kerja memandangkan org lain bercuti..huhu* ...Hey, I know everyone has their own plan for holiday already...Me? huh.. Not planning anything..yet :'( friends, don't forget me during this coming holiday, ok...

Initially, I wanted to add 1Malaysia image from google search, but worried of copyrighted images issues so I simply write *refer above* with Malaysia flag color (^_^')

I LOVE MALAYSIA... because we have so many holidays... *country with the most holidays, I think*...why? because...We are Multi-cultured people and we are 1(one) in this country... peace!

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Friday, August 13, 2010

Penanggung Sepi

Lonesome Bearer

I Love thee
with sincerity and honesty
but I feel thy don't
We keep drawn apart
though we proclaim love
for I feel thy don't

Enough... Append no more
the sufferings in my heart
Leave me alone dear
Enough... Deceive no more
Thou has love no more
Let me be
the lonesome bearer

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Thursday, August 12, 2010


This is a story about my 1st day in the month of fasting... fasting attempt?hehh.. not really fasting's more on my diet attempt *refer previous post*...

Ok..let's start from morning...yesterday, I woke up an hour earlier from my usual wake-up time...cold bath and then had my hot milo cereal for my breakfast...although at first I decided to go to my office early *since we have new working hour on this fasting month*...but then I remembered...I need to go to the bank first...and so, my early-morning-wake-up-spirit still turns up to a late arrival *which actually my usual bad habit..erkk!*...meaningless
At the office, no one ate or drank of-course...the nearby cafe and mini kiosk besides my office noon, my stomach started growling and my throat felt order for me to find foods and drink...I need to drive out of UPM and look for a Chinese stall/restaurant *i never eat Chinese stall/restaurant in these i have no idea where to find one*...and the thought of going to eat ALONE?? nahhh.. so, I decided to hold on... The whole day..I kept thinking about food..what to eat and where to buy and all that I can think of...

By evening, I was already, right after office hours, I quickly went off to find something light to fill in my empty stomach *I don't want to eat too much all of sudden...* After I reach home, I remembered there's a night market nearby my home every Wednesday evening *never been there though*...immediately, char kuey tiaw came across my me and my BF drove there, walk along the line of stalls search for my char kuey tiaw and look at other foods.. guess what...I bought Prawn Takoyaki, Chicken Spring Roll and BBQ sausage and ate everything and drink air mata kucing *how to call it in English??? cat's tears?? (x_x')* along the way looking for my char kuey tiaw *dang-it*.. of-course there's a lot of char kuey tiaw hawkers, but they're all not cooked the way i like *I DON'T LIKE TAUGEH*...gosh, why people like to cook noodles with taugeh (>.<) we went off...drop by at a chinese restaurant near my house and ordered *FRIED KUEY TIAW WITHOUT TAUGEH*...finally my dinner, after takoyaki, spring roll and sausage entrees (T.T')*sob sob* meaningless....

Next story begins from two(2) weeks be exact, 2/3 days before my birthday...For the past couple of month *or probably earlier*, I had plan to change my hair style (Flash back: early last year long curls...then, long straight) this year I decided to go for medium curl *my actual plan is short curl..just like Caitlyn Rund's hair in Remember Me(2010)*...

Short messy curl ...nice![image: credit to google]

After an advice from the hair stylist...I agreed to have medium curl since I have a round face, and is not recommended to cut my hair shorter than my shoulder *duh*... My mistake, I washed my hair the next morning *I don't know whether I should wash it or keep it for a few day*...2 weeks later, which is hair went back to it's normal state...which is uglier and dryer than before :(((....bye bye RM260...meaningless...

yeap..that's my meaningless story.... P/S : Tak der makne nyerrrr.....

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Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Bulan Ramadhan

Wishing all my Muslim friends a Blessed Fasting Month...let's together2 fast ;) *ehem..*
since almost all my colleagues are I decided to fast too... *actually..ambil kesempatan nk diet... ;p* wish me luck :D

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Thursday, August 5, 2010

My Silver Jubilee

Hello to August...Goodbye to July...2010

yeah July... End of July is my birthday...and this year, it's my Silver Jubilee Anniversary of Living on a planet called Earth...

Here's what I did on my day:

Musical Theater: Cuci The Musical 2 at Istana Budaya
Thank my honey bee, sweetheart, puppy love for the gift *muah*

Mini Celebration with BFFs at McDonald's Cheras Leisure Mall
hahaha! mengalahkan bebudak...anyway...thanks for the gifts and cake friends *muah*

Meet-up with school mates at BBC
oouu..yeah..there comes Jaclyn Victor..

Thank you notes:
" Dear friends, thank you for the many warm and happy greetings and memories...via smses, email and facebook..they are very nice and very thoughtful...most importantly, thank you for being the wonderful part of my world...lots and lots of hugs and kisses for my wonderful friends...~love, Joanna"

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